Advice for parents with kids starting school

Going back to school means getting back to the same grind of meals, rides, sports, clubs… and going back to running on autopilot. But there is a subset of parents who don’t have these seasoned routines because it’s their first time having a child go off to school every day. 

If you are a parent who will drop off your little one or watch them climb the steps of the bus for the first time next week, here is some advice that helped other parents find success for their children.

1. Be involved

One of the top suggestions was to be involved in your child’s education. Join the PTO, volunteer for something, or even just sit with them for homework. 

“If you are new to the community / district, joining the PTO is one of the best ways to be involved in your child's educational experience,” said Susanne Oldring. “In addition, you meet other parents, teachers and administrators, so it’s a very quick way to get plugged in to the lay of the land.”

A school education doesn’t just stay in the school walls, parents said. It takes a village to raise a child, so be involved with all the people who have influence. Parents suggest asking a lot of questions, talking with teachers, and even being present in the classroom when appropriate. Getting involved also gives you a chance to meet other parents, including those who have been through this before. 

2. Work with teachers

Teachers are there to support your child, and want them to succeed, just as you do. Feel free to be open with teachers about your child’s experience and let them know the concerns you have, if any. 

“Support your child’s teacher,” said Sandy Reid Albano. “He/she is really there for your child. They are your greatest ally.”

“They are all fantastic, dedicated professionals, and more than willing and happy to work with you to ensure your child's educational career is a successful one,” added Lisa Scilabro Falco. 

3. Join the community

Center Moriches is a small, close community, and that includes the school district. There are multiple opportunities to be involved in different organizations, like the PTO, athletic booster club, and the board of education. Parents say making those connections makes the whole process much better for you and your child. 

“Make the time to be present in the school community; you and your children will greatly benefit by the experience and the friends you make,” said Jeannine Barr.